tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3919853646834968709.post120047817478578697..comments2023-09-17T15:13:17.337-04:00Comments on Preemies And Me: The Good, The Bad, and The BeautifulCharisma @Preemies And Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18077342398944242977noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3919853646834968709.post-52622430687887666022011-01-15T20:47:28.094-05:002011-01-15T20:47:28.094-05:00Aww... I wish I could offer you tried and true adv...Aww... I wish I could offer you tried and true advice but, truth is, I feel that way ALOT, too. My babies are 19 months and 3 1/2 years old and I'm due for #3 next month. I get driven up the wall! Lol. But even when times get hard and you feel like those crazy bang-your-head-on-the-wall times are outnumbering the good ones, you realize that those good moments are enough to get you through until the next good moment. Otherwise, I'd have been put in the crazy house a loooong time ago. Hope you feel better!Myriam G.http://withloveem.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3919853646834968709.post-12124503694966684432011-01-11T21:49:44.966-05:002011-01-11T21:49:44.966-05:00I know this is kinda cliche, but it definitely doe...I know this is kinda cliche, but it definitely does get easier. I was a SAHM until Lydia was 8 months (and even know I only work 2 days a week). I had in my mind all of the things I would want to accomplish in a day, and sometimes none of them would get done. Obviously I didn't have twins (the idea scares the crap out of me), so I may not understand caring for two, but once they are less fragile and begin to move around some, I think it gets easier. They can get more of their own needs met. I still get frustrated sometimes (like when I was trying to cook dinner yesterday and Lydia wanted me to pick her up the whole time), but for the most part, I find this stage in her life to be easier. Invite people into your world to help you out - let friends and family come over whenever offered. That's definitely a lifesaver. And once your ready, schedule a Ladies Night with friends - even if it is just once a month. Sometimes you need a drink and some girl talk :)Huppie Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13940812901336948624noreply@blogger.com